SAUCY SECRETS: I think my neighbour is doing something very dodgy, should I tell his wife?

Dear Jana,

My hubby and I person go awesome friends pinch our neighbours who are a mates our age.  We drawback up for verandah drinks a mates of times a period and they've ever appeared to person a solid, loving relationship. 

Recently I've started moving from location and my agency table faces nan beforehand of our location looking retired connected to nan street. I've noticed that nan hubby comes location astir luncheon clip immoderate days, and a fewer minutes aft he gets location different charismatic female arrives. 

They enactment wrong for astir 30mins to an hour, and past some time off successful abstracted cars. He's intelligibly having an affair. 

Should I show his wife? My hubby keeps telling maine to enactment retired of it, but if I was nan woman I would want to know.

Anonymous.

Dear Anonymous,

I opportunity this pinch nan top respect, unopen your pastry hole.

The problem pinch blowing up personification else's matrimony is that you don't person each nan facts earlier you do it. What to you whitethorn look for illustration a cheeky matter could beryllium to them an unfastened marriage. I mean, is it? Probably not, but you don't know! And therein lies nan problem.

If you want to springiness him a subtle 'I'm connected to you' scare, I would rotation retired and springiness nan beforehand section a bully weeding aliases springiness nan car a lavation erstwhile you cognize he's arrived and she's connected her way. Perhaps moreover present yourself to her and opportunity 'Oh are you looking for (insert wife's sanction here)? She's not astatine location but I deliberation her hubby is'.

It will scare nan bejesus retired of them if they are up to nary good. But arsenic acold arsenic telling nan wife, no. You look for illustration a meddlesome neighbour and there's capable dibber dobbers successful nan world without adding to nan tally.

Dear Jana, 

My partner and I precocious had a threesome pinch a female we met retired astatine a barroom and it was mind-blowing. Now I can't extremity reasoning astir her. It was expected to beryllium a casual thing, but I've since followed her connected Instagram and she's followed maine back. 

She DM's maine occurrence emoji's anytime I put a image of myself up connected stories and I benignant of want to drawback up conscionable one-on-one. How do I bring this up pinch my partner? He knows I've ever been bi-curious but it's ever been thing we explored together. 

I emotion him truthful overmuch and don't want to extremity our relationship, but I'm hopeless to research this broadside of my sexuality further. Help!

Bi-curious.

Dear Bi-curious,

Ahhh I spot you've discovered nan acheronian broadside of a threesome. The 'oh nary I've caught feelings' dilemma.

I tin ideate nan enticement is sidesplitting you. But conjecture what, group look that problem each day. Whether it's 2 joined co-workers who observe their harmless flirting is becoming not truthful harmless, aliases nan 2 tipsy strangers astatine a barroom eyeing each different up and down. 

Temptations are everywhere, and it tin really make our relationships travel unstuck. However… you made a committedness to your fella. Yes, eww, nan C-word.

So I propose you bring it up pinch your partner, and fto him spell distant and deliberation astir it. I wouldn't beryllium expecting an reply connected nan spot. If he says he's not comfortable pinch it past you unopen it down. No much occurrence emoji's, nary much insta flirting. 

You whitethorn very good person to prime betwixt your narration aliases a nighttime of surviving retired your chaotic fantasies. Up to you. But if your narration is arsenic important arsenic you opportunity it is, past I cognize what I would beryllium picking.

Dear Jana, 

I damaged my penis during a footy lucifer and now it has a flimsy bend. It still useful good but I'm tense to show a female successful lawsuit I spot a look of disgust. How do I get backmost my assurance again? Do women really attraction what it looks like?

Anonymous.

Dear Anonymous,

Stop pinch this delirium talk correct now. Because a bent penis is astir surely not a bad thing. Some would propose (me) that it's a jolly bully thing.

Because arsenic you've astir apt already discovered, a woman's G-spot is simply a mighty difficult point to find. Now ideate you've sewage a small bended guiding ray astatine nan extremity of your ol' fella, and you, my friend, now person a winning chance of uncovering it.

I mean deliberation astir nan times you've utilized your fingers. You're not keeping them dormant straight. No, that's kinda creepy. You're making them somewhat curved, and that's why women often find it much enjoyable to get disconnected successful that shape past pinch nan woody woodpecker you've sewage down your pants.

So deterioration your bended 'gent' pinch pride, and deed those correct angles pinch delight. A batch of women would convey you for it. Trust me.