My fiancé dumped me three weeks before our planned £30k wedding - he didn't give me a reason so this is what I did on my wedding day instead

A erstwhile bride-to-be has revealed really she was dumped by her fiancé conscionable 3 weeks earlier their wedding aft spending £30,000 connected nan large day. 

Jessica Buchanan, 33, a make-up creator and contented creator from Toronto, Canada, met her partner successful 2010 astatine a assemblage statement erstwhile they were some 19 years old. 

In March 2022, Ms Buchanan's fellow projected to her successful what she described arsenic a 'huge proposal' which she likened to a movie scene.

While Jessica threw herself into readying each azygous facet of nan wedding, picking nan venue of converted greenhouse that required a £4k0 deposit, her husband-to-be did not look to stock her enthusiasm. 

She began to announcement that things were going awry erstwhile her and her partner began to reason arsenic nan wedding drew person - thing they had ne'er done overmuch before. 

After having her bridal ablution connected April 1 2023, she admitted 'a increasing emotion of dread' arsenic her wedding time drew closer. 

Speaking to The Sun, Jessica said: 'A mates of days later, I'd had a bad emotion each greeting and was still trying to calm my nerves erstwhile Adam walked in. The 2nd I saw his face, I conscionable knew.

'But proceeding him opportunity that he couldn't get married, I mislaid it. A activity of anger and humiliation deed me. As I shouted, Adam stood location looking broken. 

'He couldn't springiness immoderate circumstantial reasons – he conscionable kept saying really unspeakable he felt, really he hated doing this. We knew our narration was over.

'He went to enactment astatine his dad's, and I was near astatine home, surrounded by wedding stuff. I couldn't extremity crying. We'd wasted astir £16k, but my family were truthful supportive – they only cared astir my happiness.' 

Jessica added that, though she did not want to spot her erstwhile partner but did admit nan request to show guests that their wedding would not spell up as, by this point, it was conscionable 3 weeks away.  

She said that they sent invitees a connection which read: 'The wedding has been cancelled, please respect our privacy.'

While galore would person been shocked and saddened by specified abrupt news, others moreover thought nan connection was a precocious April Fool's joke.   

Not being capable to look spending her wedding time astatine home, Jessica made nan impromptu determination to spell to a Taylor Swift performance successful Texas - complete 1,300 miles distant and astatine nan costs of £1,700 ($2,180) for a ticket. 

Instead of stepping down nan aisle pinch her hubby arsenic planned connected April 21 2023, Jessica attended Swift's performance at NRG Stadium successful Houston - while her wedding was obscurity successful show and tucked distant successful her wardrobe. 

Jessica said that partaking successful specified an acquisition has helped her to fto spell of her anger complete nan past 16 months. 

Now making love personification new, she added that her planned matrimony 'would ne'er person worked' but that nan erstwhile bride and groom to beryllium are civilian to 1 different connected nan occasions they person met since their split. 

She added: 'I don't cognize if I'll ever get married. But I've learned really important it is to beryllium honorable pinch nan personification you love. No narration tin past without it.'