Jodie Marsh's stalker hell: Model reveals how crazed fan duped her into dating and why she's taking a break from men after a cycle of 'narcissists, gaslighters and abusers'

Jodie Marsh has revealed a crazed instrumentality erstwhile duped her into making love him. 

The glamour exemplary was a lads' mag favourite and nan eventual activity awesome erstwhile she burst into nan limelight successful nan Noughties. 

Yet she revealed that becoming each man's imagination had its acheronian side, arsenic she reflected connected her tumultous making love history and targeting a drawstring of 'weirdos'. 

During an exclusive question and reply pinch MailOnline, nan 45-year-old animal activistic explained that she now has 'no clip to date' arsenic she's engaged moving Fripps Farm, yet has nary issues taking a man break aft a drawstring of bad experiences. 

Reflecting connected her murky making love history, she admitted: 'I deliberation I'm nan astir unlucky personification successful emotion In nan full world. I person encountered narcissists, gaslighters, female beaters, activity abusers, kid activity abusers. You sanction it, I've had it.'

Reflecting connected 1 shocking encounter, Jodie recalled: 'One of my exes stalked maine truthful overmuch that he had researched everything astir maine to wrong an inch of my life and decided to 'bump' into maine astatine my favourite cafe, wherever I'd spell for meal each day. 

'He'd publication each azygous question and reply I'd ever done, watched each azygous YouTube clip, everything. 

'So he knew each azygous point to opportunity to maine to get maine to autumn for him. He knew each azygous portion of my life, and he utilized it successful a measurement that was truthful clever.

'For example, he knew that years agone maine and my friends would stake tattoos alternatively of money. If you mislaid a bet, you had to get a tattoo of nan different person's choice.

'Well, nan feline had researched maine truthful overmuch - and this wasn't an easy portion of accusation to find - truthful erstwhile we were successful our early dating shape he told maine to disregard a tattoo of his because he "got it successful a bet." 

'And I was like, "oh my god, ohio my deity , I've ne'er met anyone that does that. This is my psyche mate. He's for illustration nan antheral type of me. 

'I was reasoning he was astonishing but no, he had conscionable done his research. Even my mum and dada were fooled.

'And past nan cracks started to show and nan disguise slipped. He started becoming convulsive and controlling.

'I recovered retired he was a criminal and had been convicted of aggregate crimes and successful and retired of jail.' 

Jodie revealed she wished she had utilized Clare's Law, a strategy group up to fto group find retired from constabulary if their partner had a history of domestic violence, to study astir his past. 

She explained: 'Clare's Law is nan astir astonishing thing. Now I won't day anyone unless I've utilized Clare's Law to cheque them before.

'Every clip I extremity a relationship, it gets harder to spot nan adjacent one. They benignant of spot distant astatine your spot each clip and it gets harder and harder to spot successful future.'

For now, Jodie is taking clip retired of making love and is dedicating her clip to moving her animal sanctuary. 

She explained: 'I americium done pinch men. I haven't sewage clip for a narration anyway, but I person had a really unsmooth clip pinch men.

'Weirdos are attracted to maine but they'll dress they're normal. They're truthful hopeless to beryllium pinch maine that they'll do anything, they'll put connected this large act.

'And past conscionable erstwhile you think, "oh, he's amazing, he's truthful nice", you find retired he's a gaslighting nasty psychopath.'

Jodie's astir caller narration came to an extremity successful March, pinch nan exemplary ending things pinch nan builder, 3 months aft claiming he was her 'first big narration aft making love a drawstring of con men'. 

Prior to Mark she dated Elvis impersonator ex Billy Collins, who she divided from aft she discovered had been cheating connected her pinch aggregate women during their three-year romance. 

Jodie ended things pinch her ex Wayne Lennox successful January 2019, having brought to an extremity to her three-year agelong celibacy pledge, which came aft she divided from 2nd hubby James Placido successful 2016.

The mates had only been joined for 8 months, and Jodie publically confirmed their divided successful a lengthy Twitter rant successful which she claimed he had been making 'monetary demands'.

Jodie was besides concisely joined to Matt Peacock successful 2007 for conscionable 2 months aft nan brace met connected nan reality show Totally Jodie Marsh: Who'll Take Her Up nan Aisle?

In 2008, Jodie besides concisely dated female hairdresser Nina and conscionable a twelvemonth later aft their split, she vowed to acquisition 5 years of celibacy.

It was a promise nan prima managed to support erstwhile she dated TOWIE's Kirk Norcross successful 2012 for conscionable 2 weeks, arsenic he later alleged she refused to slumber pinch him successful an question and reply pinch Reveal magazine.

Jodie was exchanged rings to DJ David Doyle successful 2006 aft conscionable 11 days of making love but nan mates called it quits conscionable weeks later.

Now, she's much than happy staying azygous for nan meantime, arsenic she mused: 'I'm astatine nan constituent wherever I deliberation my champion stake uncovering a man is astir apt done a friend, but honestly I don't person clip now anyway. 

'I hardly person clip to eat immoderate crisps aliases shove an oven pizza successful fto unsocial ablution and put connected makeup!'

Jodie's power levels are surely to beryllium marvelled astatine erstwhile she explains her regular daily astatine Fripps Farm. 

The animals - of which location are hundreds erstwhile you facet successful nan birds and reptiles she cares for - require information nan timepiece care. 

Many of whom - Jodie estimates 80 percent of which - would person been put to slumber if it weren't for Fripps taking them in. 

It's a a mammoth task for Jodie and her mini group of volunteers, truthful why doesn't she return connected much volunteers?

'You can't conscionable spot immoderate random person,' Jodie explained. 'The only group we judge are group that we know, friends of friends. 

'I don't want random group stepping into my location and being present each day. They could beryllium trolls pretending they want to travel and unpaid because they conscionable want to get immoderate rumors aliases they could beryllium fans.

'I've had truthful galore weirdos successful my life, including ex-boyfriends that turned retired to beryllium utter weirdos aliases narcissists aliases psychos aliases whatever, and truthful I'm conscionable really, really wary of people.'

Jodie was inspired to unfastened Fripps Farm following the tragic decease of her mother Kristina successful September 2020.

She explained: 'When my mum sewage sick, her diminution was reasonably quick. It was during Covid truthful maine and my dada had to attraction for her astatine location because nan hospitals had kicked each nan crab patients out. 

'It was conscionable horrific. I gave up activity and gave up everything to attraction for my mum. And that was what made maine realise that life's excessively short, watching my mum dice successful beforehand of me.

'Why would I spell and do different TV show aliases different photoshoot aliases immoderate it is erstwhile that's not what I want to beryllium doing successful life? That's not what's gonna make maine happy.

'What's gonna make maine happy is having an animal sanctuary, because it's nan only point I've ever genuinely wanted. I ever knew that was nan extremity goal.'

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