Bryan Abasolo Says He Was ‘Beaten Down,’ Hires Divorce Coach After Rachel Lindsay Split

Bryan Abasolo admitted he was “beaten down” erstwhile he hired a divorcement coach aft he and his estranged wife. Rachel Lindsay, called it quits.

“When I first met my divorcement coach past year, I was emotionally and psychologically beaten down,” Bryan, 44, wrote via his Instagram Stories connected Thursday, July 18. “I needed an nonsubjective opinion and guidance to make a immense decision.”

The erstwhile Bachelorette contestant past credited his divorcement coach, Rene Garcia, “for helping maine look nan PR tricks and gaslighting I was warned was coming.”

“I’m thankful. If reasoning of separating, find a divorcement coach truthful you don’t make a determination by reaction, but done clarity,” he concluded.

Bryan revenge for divorcement from Rachel, 39, successful January aft 4 years of marriage. While their divided has been making headlines, nan chiropractor did not springiness examples of nan “gaslighting” he was referring to successful nan caption.

Not only did Bryan praise Rene successful his post, but nan divorcement coach collapsed down nan activity they’ve been doing together successful his ain Instagram post connected July 18.

“Bryan faced a reliable determination arsenic he had had capable of chasing, arsenic he calls it ‘a perpetually moving extremity post’ and he expressed ‘tolerating disingenuous’ behavior,” he captioned nan video post. “The fearfulness of gaslighting, media-fed attacks connected his characteristic and bullying had been an excuse frankincense delaying taking action. I’m happy to person been chosen to thief him get clarity, beryllium judge of his determination and cognize what to expect.”

Rene past praised Bryan for staying “committed to his individual improvement and nan maturation of his practice.”

Fans watched Bryan and Rachel get engaged during nan play 13 finale of The Bachelorette successful 2017, and they sewage joined 2 years later successful 2019.

Their divorcement has gotten messy, and Rachel was precocious ordered to salary Bryan $13,000 a month successful impermanent spousal support pursuing a proceeding successful July. Bryan claimed that he needed nan magnitude of money successful bid to move retired of nan location they resided successful during their marriage.

“Our existent surviving business is very awkward and strained. We mostly do not moreover talk to each different and effort to debar each other,” Bryan said during nan hearing, according to documents obtained by In Touch. “Rachel has information cameras extracurricular our home. Only Rachel has nan credentials to nan information cameras, and Rachel tin show my comings and goings.”

Before nan ruling was determined, Rachel based on that she “paid 100 percent of nan mortgage, spot taxes, homeowner’s insurance, attraction and repairs, utilities, and costs to attraction for our pets (including their food, medicine, daycare, boarding, vet bills, pet insurance) connected Bryan’s behalf while he refuses to vacate my home.”

“Except for paying our gardener and 50 percent of our housekeeping costs, Bryan continues to reside successful my house without contributing immoderate costs to nan carrying costs,” she continued.

In summation to nan monthly payment, Rachel was besides ordered to salary $15,000 to screen her ex’s lawyer fees and $5,000 for his forensic master expenses.